[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.leep.cz\/proc-existuje-tolik-nazoru-na-vychovu-deti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.leep.cz\/proc-existuje-tolik-nazoru-na-vychovu-deti\/","headline":"Pro\u010d existuje tolik n\u00e1zor\u016f na v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed","name":"Pro\u010d existuje tolik n\u00e1zor\u016f na v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed","description":"Asi v\u0161ichni budeme souhlasit, \u017ee za d\u00edt\u011b maj\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnost rodi\u010de. 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A to nejen co se t\u00fd\u010de z\u00e1kladn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de, ale tak\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy. Je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na nich, aby ze sv\u00e9ho potomka ud\u011blali platn\u00e9ho \u010dlena spole\u010dnosti.\u00a0Vzhledem k\u00a0tis\u00edc\u016fm let\u016f zku\u0161enost\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f s\u00a0v\u00fdchovou by se mohlo zd\u00e1t, \u017ee jsme ji\u017e d\u00e1vno p\u0159i\u0161li na ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd recept. Opak je bohu\u017eel pravdou \u2013 n\u00e1zory a to, jak d\u00edt\u011b co nejl\u00e9pe vychovat, se mezi lidmi zna\u010dn\u011b li\u0161\u00ed. A tyto rozd\u00edly jsou \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0\u00a0V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b zde m\u00e1me dva extr\u00e9my, kdy jeden zast\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1zor, \u017ee \u201e\u0161koda r\u00e1ny, kter\u00e1 padne vedle\u201c, zat\u00edmco druh\u00fd nechce sv\u00e9ho potomka nijak omezovat a brzdit tak jeho samostatn\u00fd rozvoj. Asi nen\u00ed t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edkat, \u017ee oboj\u00ed je \u0161patn\u011b. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b je pot\u0159eba p\u0159iznat, \u017ee valn\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed se \u0159ad\u00ed n\u011bkam mezi tyto dva body.\u00a0Ot\u00e1zkou v\u0161ak st\u00e1le z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1, pro\u010d se nem\u016f\u017eeme shodnout na nejlep\u0161\u00edm postupu. Koneckonc\u016f m\u00e1me ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 generace zku\u0161enost\u00ed, nehled\u011b na behavior\u00e1ln\u00ed psychologii, kter\u00e1 zkoum\u00e1 vliv r\u016fzn\u00fdch typ\u016f v\u00fdchovy na d\u00edt\u011b. I p\u0159es toto v\u0161e zde v\u0161ak panuje nesoulad.\u00a0\u00a0D\u016fvodem jej p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm to, \u017ee v\u00fdchova je n\u011bco, co se sami u\u010d\u00edme ji\u017e v\u00a0ran\u00e9m v\u011bku. D\u011bti se u\u010d\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1podobou, a vzorce z\u00edskan\u00e9 v\u00a0d\u011btstv\u00ed v\u00a0n\u00e1s z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed velmi dlouhou dobu. Proto je velmi \u010dast\u00e9, \u017ee rodi\u010de vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b tak, jak byli sami vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni.\u00a0Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, existuj\u00ed v\u00fdjimky. Nap\u0159\u00edklad \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd byl sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di t\u00fdr\u00e1n, mnohdy nebude cht\u00edt n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho pro sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. D\u011bl\u00e1 tedy p\u0159esn\u00fd opak, i kdy\u017e je pravdou, \u017ee mnoho z\u00a0nich se \u010das od \u010dasu zapomene.\u00a0Jedn\u00e1 se tedy o zna\u010dn\u011b subjektivn\u00ed z\u00e1le\u017eitost, kdy si je ka\u017ed\u00fd jist, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b on m\u00e1 pravdu \u2013 koneckonc\u016f to fungovalo na n\u011bj, tak pro\u010d ne i na jeho d\u00edt\u011b. Probl\u00e9m je, \u017ee to mnohdy vede k\u00a0zaslepenosti a \u010dasto i k\u00a0nev\u011bdom\u00e9mu t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, by\u0165 s\u00a0nejlep\u0161\u00edmi \u00famysly.\u00a0M\u011bli bychom se tedy oprostit od jak\u00fdchkoliv pocit\u016f i od nau\u010den\u00fdch vzorc\u016f a naslouchat rad\u011bji skute\u010dn\u00fdm odborn\u00edk\u016fm. Jist\u011b, je to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, av\u0161ak v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee t\u00edm sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti jen prosp\u011bjete.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.5\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d existuje tolik n\u00e1zor\u016f na v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.leep.cz\/proc-existuje-tolik-nazoru-na-vychovu-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]